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Christopher Paul Bender was born on May 19, 1970, in Plainfield, New Jersey, and passed away on Wednesday, April 2, 2025, in Owasso, Oklahoma, at the age of 54. Chris lived a life defined by love, laughter, and a contagious optimism that brightened every room he entered.
Chris completed his education in Owasso, Oklahoma, and proudly graduated with the Owasso High School Class of 1988. He went on to attend Tulsa Vocational School, where he earned his Airframe and Powerplant license. He spent most of his professional career in quality control with NORDAM.
Chris was involved in his community, spending years coaching his son, Tyler’s, baseball teams and sharing his love of the game. He also had a generous heart, raising thousands of dollars for the Multiple Sclerosis Society through his famous cookie sales. His passions included baking, hunting, fishing, and cheering for the New York Yankees. Known for his lively spirit, ornery nature, and endless jokes, Chris had a way of making everyone feel like a friend—because to him, they were.
He dearly loved his grandchildren who affectionately knew him as “Poppy”.

Those he leaves behind who hold many cherished memories include:
Wife, Kelly
Children, Tyler Bender and wife Elaine
Ashley Bender and husband Lukus
Grandchildren: Carter Hughes, Maisie Bender, and Winnie Bender
Sister, Arlene Hausher and husband Tim
Brothers, James Bender and wife Sherry
Kevin Bender and wife Dorcas
Kirk Bender and wife Debbie
Mother, Pat Bender
He was preceded in death by sister, Corinne Bender, brother, Keith Bender, and uncle, Charles Anderson.
Chris will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him, but his laughter and kindness will live on in the hearts of those he touched.
Funeral service will be held 2:00 p.m. Monday, April 7, 2025, at First Church in Owasso. There will be an open casket viewing on Sunday 2 pm until 4pm. Final resting place will be at Graceland Memorial Park Cemetery in Owasso, Oklahoma. Arrangements and services were entrusted to Mowery Funeral Service of Owasso.
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